In this group, we tend to overdo everything. The 7 pin is all you need to charge your batteries, run the trailer. Every trailer on the market, other than this industry uses the standard 7 pin connection. NO need for heavier wiring. Doubtful you could get enough draw to warrant them. I would install at least two batteries in the trailer, with a fuse in line from the tow vehicle battery. Having a converter from 110 to 12 volt helps, but normally not necessary either. A small Honda or Yamaha 2000 will charge your batteries or even run the whole thing off the 12 volt connection.
My guess is it will look a little smaller when you actually start putting it together. frame normally look like air craft carriers until the uprights go on.
Have fun, never hesitate to ask questions. Many on here have great ideas and have built off road trailers. Dig in and have a ball.