and the tires are rated to nearly 16,000 lbs?
Overinflated will also wear the tires out quicker.It's safer to run the max pressure on a heavy vehicle like yours if you're not sure what it should be. The higher "cold" pressure (before driving) will prevent sidewall deflection and overheating, especially at highway speeds on a hot day. It may be a harsher ride than necessary but you will avoid blowouts.
I know, I'm just saying it's better than a blowout until he can figure out the correct pressures.Overinflated will also wear the tires out quicker.