arly 1700 miles from here to Denver, a 10mph difference in speed getting there and back can mean adding 2 days to my trip in an area I'd like to see vs 2 days in one I'd rather not.
I think your math is a little wonky.
1700 miles @ 60mph average is 28.3 hours of driving time.
1700 miles @ 70 mph average is 24.25 hours of driving time.
So that extra 10mph average will only "save" you 4 hours of drive time, not even close to "2 days"
The difference is only 3 hours between 70mph and 80mph.
At highway speeds, almost all the energy the engine is producing is to overcome wind resistance, especially so on a vehicle with a co-efficient of drag like the Wrangler.
The energy required to overcome wind resistance increases with the cube of velocity (i.e. to the power of 3) - so you'll require much less energy to drive even a little bit slower, which is why slowing down helps mileage much more than anything else (tires, weight, etc.)
(The energy required to move more mass only increases with the square of mass (i.e. to the power of 2), so removing weight is still not as good as slowing down).
-Dan