Just offered as a reference:
2005 Ram 3500 crew cab with the 5.9 Cummings on 35's. Steel Buckstop bumper and 12K winch. Hillsborough aluminum flatbed with custom aluminum boxes, twin swingouts for trash/toilet box & spare tire. Loaded with all the crap for real life extended travel. Rear air bags and sway bar. Handles and stops great and gets 15MPG at speeds 65 and below. The nicely optioned FWC Hawk weighs 1500 pounds. The rig loaded up (wet, 2 persons, fully stocked) scales at 10K pounds with 4K on the front, 6K on the rear.
As you get near this end of the weight scale...you really need to start with the right foundation. If you go with a lighter rated truck commit to a lighter build...like a topper with a pop up (FWC M, GFC, AT Atlas) or similar.
Going down the road KNOWING your truck and all the critical components are rated for and can handle the actual load is piece of mind that is priceless.
Safe and happy travels folks.