A second lead start battery for either of the OP's vehicles would weigh much more than 20lbs, and they'd need a second battery for each vehicle. One of the reasons I like having a jump pack is that it's a completely independent power source that can be counted on to do its job. Whatever takes out the main start battery should have no effect on a jump pack. Clore makes models that are designed to fit behind or under a seat, which is where I carry mine.
YMMV - Depends on the use. If I had to hand carry a start source around with me, I'd opt for lithium based power, too. At 18 lbs, a Clore JNC660 is more portable than a battery cart, but definitely more to lug than the typical lithium battery jump pack. If my employer was buying lithium jump packs for me, I'd take one of those and not be concerned when it died.
IMO, the advantage of a lithium jump pack is their size/weight. If someone made an LFP battery powered jump pack with cables & clamps on par with the Clore, I'd much prefer one of those to any of the NOCO ones mentioned in this thread. As I mentioned, I routinely run a winch with my JNC660; I'm pretty sure that would smoke a NOCO pack. The JNC660 can be used to charge electronics via its 12V aux port, but there are lead battery packs with USB ports, lights, and compressors on board if those are features someone wants.
If the trade-off of a smaller/lighter package at the expense of durability, longevity, and cost works for you, buy lithium. There are good examples of both lead & lithium chemistry jump packs on the market, but they aren't directly comparable, and it's up to the buyer to decide which is better for them.