I found something interesting about sleeping pads...I have tried a number of them, from a 1" thick closed cell foam roll-up, to a tri-fold 3" thick foam mattress, a 3/4 length Thermarest Guide (1.5" thick), and a Thermarest Deluxe Camplite (2.5" thick). None of them gave me a good night's sleep. My hip would always end up collapsing the foam, or the thermarest would not sufficiently hold my mid-section and some part of my body would ache all night and all the next day.
Then I lost about 55 lbs. I went from 275 lbs. to about 220 lbs. over a period of nine months.
Now, all my pads deliver a satisfactory night's rest. It seems that most sleeping pads are designed for a certain size and weight user, and that cross-section of humanity seems to be slighter in build! I couldn't figure it out at first, I kept thinking "Why am I getting such a better night's sleep now?" And then it dawned on me...try putting a 30+ lb. weight in the middle of your thermarest while you lay on it, and I guarantee you it will sag in the middle and your hip will be on the ground!
For those of you who are 250 lbs, or more, I'd suggest going with a really, REALLY thick mattress. Try Cabela's, as they seem to make stuff for bigger users. Big dudes tend to be bigger in some parts of their bodies than others (like their gut and MMM), so while their shoulders might not touch the ground on a deluxe thermarest, their midsections will. This means your hip and your lower back and your MMM on that little annoying rock all night.
So big boys: lose some weight, or get a super cushy 4"+ thick pad. Forget about the space you'll sacrifice. You'll be a lot happier in the morning.