Late to the thread, but adding my two cents.
I have driven the 2023 6.7 HO and a 2023 7.3 and both drive great. I then ordered a '24 7.3 with 3.73 and have driven it for just over 6,000 miles; mostly loaded with a camper and often towing a 3,000lb fishing boat or 3,000lb 16' enclosed trailer.
Poaching my own thought process from one of my posts in another forum...
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My use case is a fairly light (1,300lb) slide-in, pop-up pickup camper. Have had this style of camper (two different brands) for 6 years. Campers have been on a 10 year old, overloaded 1/2 ton (2013 Tundra with 4.6L V8) with LT tires and airbags. I've been plenty happy with roughly 325hp and 325torque and 6 speed transmission. Loaded with camper, supplies and two people, I've been as high as 2,400lbs of payload! And that is not including MTBs/dirtbikes on a receiver rack or tongue weight from enclosed trailer with powersports toys (3,000lb) or boat/trailer (3,000lb). Yeah, handling was adequate, but never ideal.
I needed more payload capacity, handling and braking ability than my 1/2 ton. I don't need more hp/torque than that little V8 engine gave. Always say that "I want a light heavy-duty not a heavy half-ton" because I want the axles, frame, brakes, suspension of an HD/SD but don't need the engine/transmission because I don't tow heavy. My boat and my enclosed trailer are only 3,000 lbs each. I'm moving to a more capable pickup because our next slide-in pop-up camper is slightly heavier. I'll likely be around 2,600lb camper/gear/people. Then around 200 - 400lb of tongue weight depending on which trailer or hitch carrier I have on. I drive reserved when appropriate with the load. I time lights. I engine brake on hills. My previous pickup's original brake pads were still good when I sold it with 160,000 miles. Tundra had 110,000 and still plenty of brake pad left. I definitely don't drive slow, but I do drive smooth, time stoplights, use engine braking on mountain pass descents and that is reflected in brake pad life.
Camper stays on 7 months of the year then is off and stored the other 5 months. If I have to commute to work, it's only a 6 mile drive. Live in MT so winter is fairly cold. We disperse camp and so are always driving forest service roads in the mountains. Not uncommon to be in 4lo for 3 to 5 hours at a time. We drive everything from easy dirt roads to narrow, rocky mountain trails, to UT trails (did White Rim Road, again spring of '23, in two days with the current pickup and camper). Meaning, rough enough roads and trails that we air down then air up with ARB compressor. Extra curb weight of a diesel is a con for trail driving, too.
Diesels run best when worked hard. I don't tow heavy. I don't floor it off every light. I don't drive quick...though I do drive fast often enough (80mph speed limits here and traffic often moves faster than that) but sustained high speed doesn't work an engine very much. We also drive at idle speed for hours on end when on the trails. I wouldn't work a diesel hard enough for passive regens so there would be a lot of active regens. Running a modern diesel too easy and/or for short trips and/or at low rpm for hours and hours on end causes too many issues with emission equipment. The engine doesn't care, but all the emissions equipment does. It seems like those that tow heavy or work their diesels have the least amount of issues and those that baby or don't work their diesels have more than their share of issues. For my use, I'd be the latter.
My wife and I are often 50 to 100 miles away from the nearest town and so, even with satellite communication, I value reliability over a lot of other criteria because I want to be self sufficient and because getting towed out of, or someone to us with needed parts to fix, that far back would not be fast, easy or cheap. I'm all for adventure, but I'm not a glutton and to me, the most important part of preparedness is not having an issue in the first place. Even if the odds of reliability are only slightly better with gas, that weighs in my decision (and, as I rack up miles on this rig, I think the 7.3L will have better overall reliability then the 6.7 diesel).
Like others, I did the fuel cost analysis just so I knew and the break even point (based on zero mechanical issues/fixes and only on initial cost, estimated mpg difference and difference in fuel costs) was 150k to 200k miles. For our overlanding use case, there is a clear benefit, however, in that diesel rig would have an overall longer range. I could remedy that with a very expensive oversized aftermarket gas tank, but the reality of these last 6 years of overlanding, the number of times that we really needed extra fuel, it's easy enough to bring along extra gas in rotopax containers. My Superduty has a gas tank that is 10gallons more than my Tundra and they get the exact same gas mileage with the camper on. So I've effectively increased my range by another 100miles switching from the Tundra to the Superduty 7.3L.
Money didn't play into my decision because I buy whatever works best for my use case. If it was a diesel, I would have ordered a diesel. I'm usually pretty good about evaluating what I need (or even the intangible "what I want") for my specific use rather than falling into the trap of being influences by what everything thinks is cool. I can think something is super cool and appreciate it, but know there's no benefit or it doesn't work best for what I need. There are times that I consciously choose what I want over what I need, but but in this case, both the need and want were the 7.3L.
I keep my rigs for around 10 years and this one I plan to keep longer.
I think a lot of the difference/driving preferences just come down to "feel" and what a person prefers. Or what they were used to with previous pickup. Unless you are towing a load near max towing, both will pull about the same. A naturally aspirated gas engine just has to rev to make hp where a turbo diesel does not. Some interpret a gas engine sitting in the higher rpm range as "working too hard", busy, hectic, not-relaxing, etc. which just comes down to how each individual interprets that. A revving engine has never bothered me (maybe that is coming from motorcycle and dirtbike engines where 9,000rpm is just getting into the power band and 12,000 to 14,000 is letting it sing. A pickup sitting 1/2 to 3/4 of the way up to redline for a run up a mountain pass doesn't bother the engine so why should it bother me? And it doesn't bother me if I'm towing on the flats and the engine rpm isn't sitting at 1,200 to 1,900. I'm fine with an engine running at 2,500, 2,900 or whatever rpm it wants to run at. That being said, I've been really impressed at what a low rpm the 7.3L pulls. And the shifting on my '24 has been spot on. Well, perfect in high range. Low range shifting sucks but that is for another post. Happily, with the 10 speed and 3.73 rear, first is still quite low and so I don't find myself needing to be on 4lo very often with the Superduty on trails.
So in summary, I ordered gas over a diesel because:
(not in order of importance):
- I need payload capacity and hardly any towing capacity.
- I would not work a diesel hard enough to avoid common under-worked engine emission equipment issues. Plus hours of idle-speed trail driving.
- 7.3 weighs less than 6.7 which I like for handling/braking and trail driving plus the increase in payload.
- Our typical winter morning is 0F to -20F. Usually see a week or more of -30F to -40F. Even in winter we drive to remote trailheads and pickup sits in the cold all day. Gas is less finicky in the cold.
- When I need to commute, my one way drives are only 6 miles. Engine barely warms up. Not great for diesels.
- I don't care about hp/torque. Even with my 1/2 ton rig, I only go wide open throttle a few times a month (and those are more likely to be for fun rather than a traffic related need). Plus, even the 7.3 is a huge jump in hp/torque of current engine.
- I do my own maintenance and gas is slightly less time and cost to maintain.
- Reliability is high on my priority list because we frequently drive to remote locations
Bottom line is I love both these engine. And several engines from other manufacturers. Pros and cons to each of them. Best advice is evaluate what will work the best for your needs/use case. But then, also evaluate what you want. That might be different. Then make a decision and go with it. You are only dating the truck; not marrying it. If you change your mind later, sell it and get something different. Ha.