I've ridden bicycles my whole life, to commute to work, run errands, at least in our previous houses and our current one. The one immediately preceding this one was in a semi-rural setting with no real bike-able infrastructure. That was one of the reasons I think I was unhappy there, I had to drive everywhere.
I'm not an off-grid, loner deep down and enjoy walking & biking on a daily basis rather than needing to drive everywhere. Yet I do enjoy getting places not possible or practical otherwise. Jumping in the truck to ride in Moab or Fruita right now is a 30 minute or hour drive rather than an all day journey requiring I outfit a mule train. Such convenience doesn't come without consequences.
Your photo of gridlock is dramatic, but that isn't to say cars are *the* problem. The problem is deeper, over population, poor planning & coordination, generally speaking - chaos. It's a human condition. The possibility exists that we could have cars but live lifestyles that don't cause them to ruin us.
But like everything we do it can't be done in moderation, it has to done to '11'. Living within our means and just being happy with what we have seems impossible. But I guess OTOH without constantly tinkering we wouldn't test the edges of our existence and ultimately seeing what's over the next hill just to know is what we do.