(I apologize... this got out of hand. If you're not interested in tire construction and load rating, don't bother to read...)
I keep hearing many wishes for LR "D" instead "E". I hate to say it, but I don't think that's going to help.
The construction of my (nearly 8 year old) LR D 285 STT's is on the same 6-ply (3-ply sidewall "Armor Tech") carcass that the LR E 285 ST Maxx's have, and also the same as the current STT's, which are now E rated! The rating used to follow the actual number of ply's in the sidewall, and C tires were 4, D were 6, and E were 8. Obviously, more plys meant a stiffer sidewall. That's just not the case much anymore,
or at least with the Coopers.
The D vs E rating really only sets the max PSI of the tire at rated weight, and for tires with a heavy carcass anyway, is really more about the certification process than construction. My STT's are D rated for 3303 lbs at 65psi, while new STT's are E rated for 3704 at 80psi. I'm fairly confident that they made NO modifications to the tire itself, but rather just re-certified at the higher pressure.
In the past, customers wanted the weight carrying capability, and thus the larger tires were certified as D because there was plenty of carrying capability even at the lower pressure given the larger size. Lately, and due largely to TPMS in trucks requiring the tires to be at 80psi regardless of load capacity, customers are asking for the OE rating (E) when they buy oversize tires. While this provides weight capacity FAR in excess of the dinky OE E rated tires, it allows them to run 80PSI, which keeps the TPMS lights out. Therefore the 6-ply tires that might have formerly been classed as a D tire are now certified as an E. In most cases, and certainly with Coopers, it's the same tire!!
Make sense? What you really want is a 4-ply LR C tire, but the ST Maxx doesn't come as a 4-ply tire, since they use the same 6-ply "Armor Tech" carcass for all versions... In the case of the STMaxx, C just means it was certified at a lower PSI and load... It's still 6-ply, and therefore probably not "softer" at all. If you want a softer tire, you'll have to get one that doesn't have 6-ply construction.
With correction to pressure for the size of tire, I couldn't really tell much difference between a 4-ply 265 LR C goodyear AT/S and my 6-ply 285 LR D STT's in terms of ride quality. I ran 28 in the D's vs. 30 in the C's, which felt the same to me...)
I think the weight of the tire may have some effect on ride, particularly on washboard surfaces, but again, if pressure is adjusted accordingly, there shouldn't be that much of a difference. The sidewall construction has VERY little to do with the spring rate of the tire at normal pressures.
I feel for those of you with TPMS that must put the factory recommended door pressure in... Your ride quality is suffering, but not because of the load range rating, rather due to the large tire really needing less pressure to carry the same weight.
Just some things to consider.
Chris