One thing that is often overlook is how much amp hour you can get out of your battery. For instance a 100 amp hour battery isnt really what you will get out of it. You never want to go below 50 percent of your battery rating.
So for a 100 amp hour battery, you can actually only use 50 amps out of it. Using only 50 percent will let your battery last years, drain it to 90 percent every time and you will "cycle it", each battery can only be cycle so many times before it starts losing capacity (it wont last long before you need to charge it again).
So if your needs use up 100 amp hours every day, that means you will need 2 x 100 amp hour batteries or a large 200 amp hour battery.
In your list of things you plan on running, the fridge / freezer will be the one using the most power. The fridge set to 40 degrees will use about 25 amp hours in a 24 hour period, but set it to zero and it might go up to 50 amps or more.
I use a small netbook which I can literally run 24 hours without it using too much power. But the larger 15 inch laptop Is a powerhog and I only use during the day when solar is available.
Led lights and fans wont use too much power, fans you usually run during the day when the sun is out. At night I usually use a small 120mm 12 volt fan that uses less than 1/2 amp. Thats 1/2 an amp per hour, if i run it for 4 hours it will use 2 amps total.
Since everything is 12 volts you just add up how much amps each item uses.
One quick way to do it is just get a dc wattmeter (cost about 15 dollars). And just measure how much amps something use during an hour of use. Thats how I find out how long I can use something with the battery I have. You quickly find out what your power hungry devices are.
