"In My Stable"
Lyric, I'll give you some advice based on what's in my "Stable" right now.
As my signature says, I'm running a '12 FJ, a '02 Silverado and I also bought a '01 Frontier for my son. All 4X4's.
My family consists of an eighteen year old son, seven year old daughter, two dogs and a wife.
I don't try do do extreme trails, just light and medium trails. The most important thing to me in a car is reliability. If I break down 60 miles from nowhere in the middle of the Mojave Desert, it could spell real trouble.
1st:
I love the FJ! PERIOD; END OF STORY! Does it have a few drawbacks, sure, all cars do, but this is a great ride. I bought this new from the dealer. This is my wife's DD and it sees minimal trail use. Not because I don't want to take it out; but because the wife wont let me take "The Beast". There is the problem of visiblity but, you'll get used to it, it's really not that big of a deal. Ours has the back-up camera, so this helps. The older models don't have this, but you can get it aftermarket; I would invest in one. As for taking four adults and a couple of dogs, this will certainly be a challenge. If you pack right and bring the right gear, you could do it. You would have to be minimalist with what you bring and be very organized. Backpacking type gear will be you're friend. When we take the FJ, it's for short, one and two day trips and I do bring my backpacking gear and leave the dogs at home. As for loading two adults in the back seats, it would be OK for short trips, under two hours, but I wouldn't want to sit back there longer than that. We bought the FJ over the Wrangler Unlimited for two reasons. One; it cost less for what it came with. I would have had to get the Rubicon to compete with my FJ, and that was just a little more than I was willing to spend. Two; the reported reliability of it and the relative unreliability of a Jeep. Did I already tell you that I love this rig? The times that we've taken it on the trails, it's been awesome. So much more maneuverable and nimble than my Silverado. We get about 16-17MPG combined C/H. It has plenty of power too.
My Silverado is a crew cab, short bed, 2500HD. I have a small, cab hi camper shell on it. I bought it when it was a year old. This truck has been nothing short of great! I have literally taken it to hell and back, and she has never left me stranded...Knock on wood. I don't baby this old girl, we go on some pretty good trails here in the desert and up in the local San Bernardino Mtn's. I've taken her into Monache Meadows up in the Southern Sierra and the toughest trail was up to Laurel Lk's on the east side of the Sierra, that was a tough trail. The truck is basically stock. This is the rig I take when we are going on extended trips, and yes the dogs do get to come in this truck. I can load up all of our "Glamping" gear, plus firewood and ride in style to where ever we are going. Eight hour trips with four adults and two dogs, no problem. The big drawback to this truck is it's maneuverability. This is my daily driver and getting around town is a little tougher than the FJ. With this said I don't ever plan on getting rid of her. I get a combined 16MPG C/H. I have 175,xxx miles on her, and the only big thing that I've had to replace was the fuel injectors.
After I pay off my wife's FJ, I'm going to park the Chevy and use her third out, and get either a Taco or a Frontier, crew cab, short bed. I think this would be a good middle ground between the FJ and the Silverado as both a DD and a capable trail rig.
Just a quick word of advice, get the newest, lowest mileage used car that you can afford. When I bought my sons Frontier, it had 100,xxx miles on it. We got a "Good" deal on it, or so we thought. $4000 and a year later it's finally running good. Also, when we went shopping for the FJ we were initially looking for a used one, but for just a few grand more we were able to get a brand new rig. My first new car ever. It didn't make sense to buy used, and we got a better APR for getting it new.
Good luck.