Yup, agree with all of this.
We were in the tiny town of Kremmling, CO back in June. I noticed that in the corner of the town park was a small, single charging station. It literally took up a single parking space. I presume the power was drawn off of the office that was part of the town park.
I think we'll start seeing more things like that popping up. As far as the cost of installation, the smart thing would be for local businesses to pitch in on the cost. After all, when people stop to charge their cars for 2 - 3 hours, where are they going to be walking around and spending money?
The "fuel station" of the future will not look like a "filling station" of today. At a "filling station" you pull in, pump your fuel, maybe walk into the store for a snack or bathroom break, then get back in your car and leave.
An EV "charging station" will look more like a parking lot, except with a pedestal in front of each space. You'll pull in, plug in, and then either sit in your car watching a movie or surfing the internet, or walk in to a shop/restaurant and spend your time (and money) there.