Your goal is a good one, but stating the goal is easier than achieving it. You must do some engineering first to determine if the chosen mike is an impedance match for the other radios, if the audio and mike lines are single wire and grounded/shielded, or are two-wire balanced to the radio, and if the mike elements are switched off (either open circuited or shorted) when the PTT switch is not pressed. Then there's the physical connection aspect. You will need cables from your combiner box to each radio (spare mike connectors are usually not too hard to find). The selector switch will need to be a multi-pole, multi-position rotary, probably, and should not be too hard to source.
If it were me, I'd take the chosen mike and interface it to the other radios with jumpers just to prove it can work, then draw out the schematic you need, collect parts, and build it. You might also want to consider an audio mixer and isolator for the receive audio from the radios, allowing you to listen to a mix of both, or select either.
That leads to another possible upgrade. Why not choose a nice headset while you are at it, and add VOX (or remote PTT switch), allowing the headset to plug into your combiner box so you can be completely hands free while offroad.
Bob
WB4ETT