thezentree
pretend redneck
No... it’s harsher than that. Only present at 60mph +. Comes up through floorboards and feels like it’s source is in the back of the vehicle.
That sounds like driveshaft to me - what's your pinion angle look like?
I've been fighting vibrations on my 3rd gen for about a year. I've gotten it to where it's tolerable but I still notice it every time I drive. I have a big thread about it on t4r.org: http://www.toyota-4runner.org/3rd-gen-t4rs/242830-bad-vibes-after-lift-install-solved-nah.html
Aftermarket rear upper control arms made a big difference on mine, but even at 0° pinion angle it still had a vibration (it's at ~1.3° now for the U-joint's sake). CV angle seems to affect it a lot, but even at like 1.5" of lift it was still there. I'm back at 2.5" now and it's slightly worse, but I guess it's a happy medium between NVH and tire clearance.
Maybe something in that thread will be helpful for you.