This forum is pretty good.
https://secondlifestorage.com/index.php
The SIMP BMS is a good choice because it is cheap and reliable. However, the manual is not well written and guy who designed it is pissy when you ask him questions. There are some other BMS systems that work with the Tesla modules, but they are much more expensive. Although I haven't look at them in about 6 months, so there may be better ones now.
Tesla modules are around $1,000 per 5kWh. They also have coolant lines built into them. You probably won't need to cool them if you don't exceed 1C of discharge, but you will need to heat them if they are exposed to the cold. You can discharge a lithium ion below freezing, but you can't charge them.
The Tesla modules have a nominal voltage of 22.5V, so unless you want to have a dual voltage system, they might not be the best option.
Get used to using Wh instead of Ah. I can assume you are using a 12V system, but a lot of solar users are using 48V. So, you want a 12kWh system, which is easier to convey. You could do that with 3 Tesla modules, but you are stuck with a 24V system then. I am doing 8 cells with 4 in series and 4 in parallel. So, it will be a 48V system. For the few things I will need 12V for, I will use a 48V to 12V converter.
What will you be running off your system?