I get what you're saying about building and tinkering, but why shouldn't a ham license allow use of the GMRS frequencies?
Like
@dreadlocks is saying, the ham license gives you a ton of freedom
within the frequencies defining amateur radio. Since GMRS does
not overlap you don't get special privileges beyond the band edges.
Anytime you're operating on ham bands with a ham license (e.g. transmitting with your call sign), you can use any danged radio you want as long as the primary and all significant harmonics remain below limits and within the ham bands and (b) you don't have a radio that splatters all over the ham bands and is disrespectful of your fellow hams.
Get a GMRS license and you have the authority to use the GMRS frequencies. Those rules say you are required to use a radio that has been tested and accepted for use on Part 95, though, so your ham radio can't be used for that.
It's a lot of hoop jumping through and in this modern world it should be and is possible to have a radio that can do many things. I think it would be cool if the FCC was petitioned to allow a ham with a frequency nimble radio that meets spectral purity and frequency stability to use these particular radios for other services. If you have a Motorola business radio that is narrowband capable that you're using for ham, it's every bit as good as anything else you'd see on GMRS and as a ham you are supposed have demonstrated at least some proficiency to understand what this means.
So if you get the license they require why shouldn't that be OK? Or put it another way, loosen GMRS rules to allow radios to be frequency nimble. So you could buy a Part 95 radio that Uniden or Midland would be allowed to modify for a ham to use on ham bands, similar to the MARS/CAP mods you can do to ham radios. It's channelized on GMRS but you get a VFO for the ham spectrum.
Keep FRS requirements very tight, the purpose of that is to be used by a person who doesn't care about the technical merits, so it should be restrictive.