OK, it looks like the max capacity of your system is 20A, so here is what I recommend.
1. Definitely keep the existing recessed 20A male inlet (picture) you have now. If you don't want the auto-eject function, just disconnect the 12v hot wire going to it or pull the fuse if it has a separate one.
2. Purchase a ready made, or make up a 12 ga. cord, 25' - 30' long, with a NEMA 5-20R Female on one end, and a male NEMA 5-20P Male on the other. The plugs should be the weatherproof type approved for outdoor use. I'm just posting this picture for reference and these cords can be found much cheaper. However, DO NOT scrimp on the quality and make sure you use at least 12 ga. wire. Nothing like an electrical fire to ruin your day, especially when it's in your sole place of residence.
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http://www.amazon.com/NEMA-5-20-Extension-Power-Cord/dp/B00DMHG15Q
3. This cord will give you plenty of reach and plug directly into the 20A receptacle located in most campground electrical pedestals.
4. If you need to plug into a standard NEMA 5-15 household type outlet, just us an adapter. For your generator, I would just make up a shorter cord with the same plugs on each end, or whatever you need to match the 15A or 20A outlet on it.
Here is a good general reference written by a couple who live full time in their RV. It's written in layman's language, and I've found it to be very helpful as I move along with my project.
http://www.rv-dreams.com/rv-electrical.html