Does it matter? I don't need to drive a diesel to understand math.
Well, that answers my initial question.
But to answer your point, plenty of them and I'll be the first to admit (and agree with you) driving a diesel absolutely 100% has a distinct driving experience that I enjoy at times in certain situations, one of them towing. But that doesn't necessarily mean it's more capable...
Well torque @ RPM is power - gear accordingly and you are good to go. Torque is a good indicator of how your powerband is shaped, but power is still the indicator of how much work an engine will do.
Nothing wrong with downshifting, you'll get to the same place at the same time, assuming the same amount of power....mpg may suffer of course.
Which one is more capable (diesel vs gasoline) depends on what capabilities you're looking for: if you want to tow or haul weight or crawl over technical terrain, arguably a diesel does provide better performance, which is not to say that a gasoline engine can't perform the same tasks.
I understand how torque relates to horsepower. The reason low-end torque is so highly coveted by many 4x4 and truck owners (and thus the reason why diesel still has a large consumer base) is because low-end torque translates into more usable horsepower at lower RPM's, which is the part of the RPM band that is more relevant to truck-like applications (towing, hauling, 4x4 driving, ect.). Again, that's not to say that gasoline engines can't perform the same functions; in fact, the more dedicated truck gasoline engines try to replicate that low-end torque (turbo charging, large displacement). But the driving characteristics are still different between gasoline and diesel in that regard.
Nothing wrong with downshifting by the way. I'm just pointing out that high-reving gasoline engine will generally require more down shifting to keep the RPM's where they need to be for useful power delivery, which is contrary to what you claimed earlier. Diesel's generally-speaking don't need to shift a lot to stay in their useful RPM band.
I'm not arguing for or against one engine type or the other...I'm merely disputing your claim that torque numbers are irrelevant. The torque numbers (and RPM) tell you
how horsepower is delivered, which I consider to be very relevant for any truck or 4x4.