Paying that much and having issues sucks and I can see where you would be jacked. However,no matter how you look at it, that is mild steel and constantly turning on it is going to cause wear. Also the dependability and survivability of poly bushings is not great in leaf springs, control arms and track bars where they stay under tension and load, let alone constantly taking it in an out and putting it under repetitive shock loads.
For greater dependability, I would run a traditional 2" hitch ball on it and only place the high articulation hitch on it when you need it. It would be nothing to make a ball coupler that would pin into the trailer like the MC does. Maybe folks out west use their trailers more in hard core areas but in the east 90% of our time is on the roads or mild off road, where the dependability of the standard ball is fine and even desired. If it's as easy as 2 pins and your up and running, save the other hitch for when you need it's capability.