That one guy,
Here your answers
Question 1: Is it possible to buy axle shafts for my Chrysler 8.75 with a different lug pattern?
Yes Moser will build whatever axle you want for any application.
However you can usually find a dana 60 rear axle for a lot less money and the strength will be 5 times what that 8.75 axle will be. You will spend 3 or 4 hundred dollars buying axle shafts to beef up a weak axle.
Question 2: Should I just buy an F-150 front axle so they'll both be 5 lugs?
Options for the front axle are endless.
You can buy a f150 axle or a dodge 1/2 ton axle to swap in the front axle.
First thing you need to figure out is how are you going to use/build your van. If you are going to load it down with a full rv build and then use it to take you to far off destinations in remote areas then I would ditch all of the half ton gear and go one ton dana 60s front and rear. Or if your going to run big tires and wheel it hard, regardless of the weight of the van I would still ditch the half ton gear. If you want a 4wd van to tow a boat or toy and get to an occasional camp spot in the woods I would say half ton would be fine. It seems around here 8 lug dana 44 front axles go for about the same as a good deal on a dana 60 front axle. If that is the case in your area I would hold out for a dana 60 again the strength will be a huge difference. I am doing a swap on my work van and I really need the 4wd to get to my house in the winter and that is about it so i am going to go with a 44 if I can find one cheap enough if not, I am going to put a 60 in the front. But either way i am ditching the 9inch for a 60 in the rear.
Derek