Macky-Boy,
I'll repeat what you have ignored from previous posts. I understand that you are upset that I don't buy your emotional but fact devoid reasoning that leads you to shoot the messenger:
I drive a 4th Gen 4Runner, 6 years old and previously had Fords for 33 years. That makes me biased towards Fords, not Toyotas.
I don't have 3rd row seating because I don't have any cute rug rats to haul around.
My 4th gen has two dome lights, operated by the door or an individual switch. Why didn't you buy a slightly used V8 4th Gen? No research??
When I bought the 4Runner I understood its limitations before I bought it and planned appropriately. I replaced the standard Toyota 2DIN radio with a Scion radio off of EBay for $50. I bought stiffer rear springs
I already posted a picture of my trailer hitched up and the sag is minimal because I understand what overloading means.
My hitch harness outlet is on the left side of the cross member near the tow hook, exactly where yours probably is. Not having abused my truck I've never torn one off. Please post a picture of yours
You claim that you need "thousands of dollars of mods" but again your research is lacking. Appropriate rear springs for all of the junk that you haul are under $300 and even you could install them alone.
If you truly had a 175 lb tongue weight your rear springs are defective. Take your whole rig to the dealer and file a warranty claim.
Yes, you accuse Toyota but I'll help you recall what you wrote before you go back and edit them:
#1 "...and for a 5th generation vehicle you would think that most of the little things like lighting, sag and towing would have been taken care of by the engineers"
#34 "... I blame toyota only on the fact that this is a 5th generation vehicle ...."
Translation: It's not my fault I bought the wrong car!!!!
Big Jim,
For an Irish lad I am a little disappointed in you.
Here is the translation in English because my Gaelic was lost about 80 years ago in my bloodline.
I made the mistake and bought the wrong car. Can we agree on that? Or do you have another argument now.
I made the mistake of buying a car that has:
1) horrible rear sag when towing and packing gear for a family of four.
2) No 3rd row lighting whatsoever
3) No driver controlled dome light to control interior lighting.
4) Horrible location of hitch harness wiring plugin. Go find a picture yourself.
If abusing a vehicle consists of towing 2500 lbs of total trailer weight to include gear (half of max capacity) as well as 2 kids under the age of 8, a cooler. 4 gallons of fuel, 4 gallons of water, a 12 pack of beer and a box of dried food. And driving it 5 miles per hour over the posted speed limit. Then I am guilty.
But you deflect the facts like a poor defense attorney and say that I shouldn’t have bought the car. Well.....your right. I shouldn’t have. because of (see 1-4) above. Your response is that I should go by aftermarket upgrades for my vehicle. Well no Ship Sherlock. Off course throwing more money at at $35,000K vehicle would make it better.
So in summary .....once again just so you dont continue to get confused. (It seems like maybe if I repeat the same thing over and over again maybe you will understand. )
I made the mistake of buying this vehicle. I made the mistake of buying this vehicle. Jimmy boy does better research then me when buying cars and stands by them. He never has anything negative to say because he is so much more thorough than me when purchasing a vehicle. Jimmy doesnt have any kids and doesnt tow a camper and doesnt have a clue about what JJMAC is talking about. Toyota is the best.