YAY!!!! I got the trailer brake lights working. turns out the trailer wiring harness for the jeep wasn't getting hard power, so I found a wire nearby that had power with the key turned on and spliced it into the trailer wiring and wuhlah! brake lights working. sometimes I consider myself a wiring genius, and then I find another wiring issue. the trailer backup light wont work. I don't know why, but I do know that its not required, so that will be a slowly progressing job, probably resulting in new backup lights mounted. probably grab a set of the $26 offroad lights from walmart and hardwire them as the reverse lights on it.
also, I took the trailer to the nearby spot and gave it a test run. wasn't able to grab any pics because I wasn't planning on going so I left my camera and gopro at home. but I think I may go out tomorrow and plan on taking a few pics. the test was a success, regardless of the fact that im open front and rear, I only got stuck twice. but I was able to backup and get out.
speaking of backing up, im completely new to the trailer scene, and don't have any trailer experience, so this is a little harder than I thought lol.