Clarifying that I'm looking at used trucks, probably 2015 or older with 70k miles or so on em.
I appreciate everyone's input. It sure seems like I am being pointed in the direction of a full size. That's a real surprise to me because I always assumed a Tacoma was THE Overland truck!?
After looking at both, the positives I have for a Tacoma is that my wife feels more comfortable driving one because of the smaller size than a F150. Also I like the lower bed sides on the Tacoma. I'm a taller guy, but reaching over the side of an F150's tall bed is a stretch! The reliability reputation of a Toyota still has me on the hook as well....But I'm starting to lean F150.
I'm going to keep looking until I'm certain I make the right choice.
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