Here are the items I think we need to finish the axles up: Any help or feedback would be appreciated!
A stock u-joint driveshaft will be more than fine.
Don't even bother yourself with this semantic u-joint discussion. The only people who need to spend their time with such things are those who are prone to having a tractor pull with a dualie late at night outside a bar.
Get whatever rear halfshafts you like. Any of them should be good enough. It's just a matter of who you like and want to give your money to.
In the front I'd be careful with that ARB. If you put in really tough halfshafts and CVs you're going to be stressing that 3.91 R&P which doesn't have a reputation for being the strongest. (It's the Santana made gearset from Bill, right?) I'd rather upgrade the CVs and keep the halfshafts stock and carry spares so they can act as the fuse as LR intended.
Mantec diff guards do look nice. I have SafariGard covers on the disco but I like the Mantec on the front of the 110 much better. You'll need to tether the rear guard or you'll lose it (the front is captured by the panhard rod). After a lot of time under the rear of the disco banging the cowbell back on I finally RTVed the diff guards in place. They haven't gotten knocked off since. It works surprisingly well.
Go ahead and do the D-90 caliper and rotor swap. It's worth it.
I'm not sure why you want to pull the ABS block so badly. One of the nice thing about the Disco1 is that all you have to do to disable the ABS is pull one 15amp fuse and the system functions as it should. I wouldn't even mess with it. It's just not worth the hassle.
I don't know about all this big bore breather business.
You either have fresh open breathers or they're old and clogged. It's not really a CFM issue. I don't know why you need some large diameter tubing to properly vent the diffs. In fact if you want you can eliminate the tubing altogether and switch to the early pressure relief valve breather.