Okay here is my non-scientific test piece summary.
Three parts were tested, the corner piece made of 2 plys (all the way around). Then a piece with 3 plys and a piece with 1/8" plywood with 2 plys over that. Note on the last two pieces I didn't bother to laminate the backside, more on that below. All made from 1" foamular 250.
Here are the 3ply and 1/8" plywood with 2 ply sample pre-test.
Okay here is the 2 ply corner piece.
1A: Medium hammer hit, localized matrix failure and a spur out to the edge, don't think that spur would have shown if this was a bigger piece. This generally intact, not really any foam damage, could be repaired fairly easy.
1B: Hard hammer hit, punched into foam, no damage on other side. Would require a foam patch as well, and more extensive surface repair.
1C: Same as 1A
1D: I put the piece on the ground with the corner up and was jumping on it. In shoes my 200lb didn't do anything in terms or surface damage or flexing the part (reassuring!). I put a board over it and jumped again. It didn't do any wide spread structural damage but the stress concentration of where the board was making contact failed the matrix partially. Overall still fairly rigid though and holding together fine. Would need to be repaired for weather ability and to regain strength to full potential.
3A: Medium hammer hit, only a tiny bit of matrix failure, nothing really to be concerned about.
3B: Hard hammer hit, matrix and some glass failure, dented but not a punch through. Might not require going all the way to foam for a repair.
3C: Hammer hit with everything I had, punched through a bit. Damage was fairly minimal considering (no deformation on backside) but would require going down to foam for repair I'd say.
2A, C, E, H: Medium hammer hit, some localized failure. Some running cracks but I'm thinking more so a function of being closer to the edge.
2B, I: Hard hammer hits. Localized and runner cracks, but no punch through. Doubled foam might factor in some but I'm thinking the close vertical planes might have dispersed some of the load.
2D, F: Hard hammer hits. Punch through and some cracking, 2F showed worse damage but see picture below, the foam failed through. I don't think that would have happened with the other side laminated.
My take away is I wish I would have taken the time to laminate the backside of the 3 ply piece to really compare now. In general though the stuff takes a decent hit, the same kind of hits would punch through thin aluminum siding I'm sure. All are repairable, some just requiring varying degrees. However even with all the hits on them the pieces are still darn solid feeling.
This didn't clearly answer to myself in regards to a path forward for a layup schedule but I have some things I can consider as I look at my design, surface area, weight/cost of each ply.