First of all, thank you for sharing your adventures with the forum. As a fellow engineer, I would like to hear your rationale for converting rather than buying a different vehicle (apart from cost of buying and time invested, or is that it). Something drastic during your travels must have prompted taking on a surgery of this magnitude. The cost delta between a 2wd and a 4x4 van is massive for sure, and I am sitting here thinking whether 4x4 is really worth pursuing so this discussion would be really helpful.
It was a tough decision. We don't need 4x4 very often, but when we need it, we are usually very far from help. Our needs are really just better traction on slippery surfaces; snow and sand. We don't rock crawl, or do technical trails, and our van has good ground clearance as it sits. We don't plan on using the extra capability, but our experience has shown that we end up needing every few months, even if we don't plan on it! I have had the van slide into ditches due to "quick mud" under grass, gotten trapped being unable to turn around on crap roads, etc. Not very often, but often enough. If we had any larger of a vehicle ( 21ft long and 8,800lbs), I don't think we would bother with the 4x4. The size of the vehicle itself is just to limiting.
We considered getting a different vehicle. But the amount of time (and decent amount of money) we have in our current vehicle is hard to sell. We would never get the value back in a sale. Our van has known history with us, its unmolested, lower miles (165k now), and has proven itself. The interior fit-out is good for our needs, and I have templates/designs so that I can make changes easily. In addition I am intimately familiar with maintenance, repair, and diagnosis on the T1N sprinter platform. The T1N platform combines some modern safety features with low complexity, and a good diesel powerplant.
The advantages of the approach I have chosen, are that I don't need to slice/dice the vans chassis. Custom parts are few, and the driveline bits I am adding are reliable. I believe it will be much less work (not counting design time) than a solid axle swap on just about any other van platform. Our next major travel plans (2021?) may be a circuit of the PanAmerican highway. Which will include winter driving, often in mountainous terrain. So having the 4x4 on standby gives us more options for planning.
Finally, I really enjoy this type of project (at least for now!). So the work and design is interesting.
Here is an example where you suddenly find yourself on a track/road which no way to turn around, and rough conditions. We were driving a forest service road, and in about 1/4 mile it went from single track to no-track. Then it started raining... With a fair bit of winching and pucker moments, we got through after 4 hours. With 4x4 I would have been able to back up the steep incline to a turn around spot.