I got some more info on shocks. The fox performance series 2.5s will not accept the offset spring perches used on the race series. Grrrr. The lead time for custom factory series starts at 8 weeks... Not going to work for my schedule.
I was looking through the fox Truck application guide. Its pretty sparse on details, but it does list overall length for a couple of truck applications. Including Tundra and GM 1500 series.
The 07-18 1500 coilover (fox 880-06-525) looks like it might work with some modifications. I would swap the lower eyelet for a shorter one (about 40$). I don't really know what springs it comes with, so thats another 120$ per spring.
Specs are 20.34 ext, 14.98 comp, travel is 5.36". I need 5" total travel, so that's just barely enough. The big advantage is they are in stock all over. Second, I can swap eyelets and spring perches around for reasonable money. The disadvantage is that I will be buying a spring which is unknown rate. The second disadvantage is they are like 800$ each! These had better be the last shocks I ever buy for this rig... There are IFP versions of this shock that are much cheaper. They would likely need tuned manually to get right for the van though. Hmmmm.