Dang it - I typed a bunch and lost it.
I agree with you - it depends on the situation. In mud you can easily get so mired you have to heavily use your engine power and wheels to get out in addition to digging and other methods. Sometimes you want to move very slowly such as in the rocks or in my last situation where the ground was very very click if I had "given 'er 'ell" I would have quickly driven past the speed of my winch causing major issues with either running over the line, sliding back on the line (dynamic force), and definitely putting a ton of slack in the line on the spool which is never good. I often see people give it a ton of gas as soon as they hook up their winch which can cause major issues. As you probably know one needs to be in control when winching and using too much gas, or assistance via the wheels, can easily and quickly put you out of control. If you have to err to one side or the other I prefer to err to the side of less power from the wheels as you can always give it more power but once you give it that power it is more difficult to take it back.