i really dig that fridge

...great job with the clean install! im hoping one of these days i'll get to see some of y'alls builds in person.
an aftermarket, uniball style upper control arm will eliminate your rub on the stock uca in reverse. ifs systems experience a change in the control arm angle when moving forward or reverse, it's just "the way it is". the wheels track outward due to toe angle in reverse, and inward when moving forward. inward means the control arms must drop, extending the suspension, outward means the control arms will try to go horizontal, compressing the suspension. the uniball uppers have a tighter side profile than the stock upper control arms, it's worth spending the 400 bucks on a set of camburgs than running a wheel adapter...the former strengthens your setup, the latter introduces complexity, a wider scrub radius, and more of a lever on the unit bearing. if you compress your suspension all the way and turn the wheels, your tires will rub. if you want to dial it right, take the coilovers out, put both front wheels on cardboard with some sand under it, and turn the wheels side to side with the lower control arm sitting on the bumpstop. youll see all the areas you need to trim or move the wheel well. once youre done, you can ditch the lift and have a large tire with a low c/g

...or keep the lift and have a well-adjusted travel ratio using a longer shaft and a uniball upper control arm.
jason & co did a beautiful job on that rear bumper with the tire carrier, and the all-pro unit also looks really good. if any of you are considering a rear bumper, decide what you want it to do and what parts of the stock truck you want to keep. imho the demello unit is better suited for pounding around offroad with a bunch of stuff in the bed and unknown roads ahead--the allpro is a bolt-on unit exchanging clearance for stock sheetmetal protection. the demello unit replaces stock sheetmetal with formed grind protection at the corners, requires a cut at the back to maximize clearance, and can be drug in the dirt or bounced off the rocks as needed. there's nothing wrong with the allpro, it's just lighter duty than the demello unit. the demello is also properly linked to the frame at the forward edge of the quarterpanel protection...i cant tell from the pic if the allpro is designed the same way, but it needs to be, and if it isn't, dont buy it.
it's actually not hard to design and make the cuts for a custom bumper. the hard part is finding someone who's willing to work with you on the welds. ask around at the local community college, sometimes the instructors will work on the side for a fair rate and teach you something in the process. if you have someone do all the work, it's actually the iterative fitment/cut/weld/grind/repeat process that kills the wallet...i experienced this recently when i was on a schedule and wound up in the hospital, my rear bumper went from costing under 200 bucks to "a lot" because i had to have someone else finish the project. if you show up with a reasonable plan, any small fab shop will be willing to help you out...all you need is a sawzall, angle grinder, and hacksaw...they weld, you do the rest. scrap yards are the best place to find material...my rear bumper, part of the sliders, and the mods to the arb in the front are cheap scrap. its very easy to improve on the stock rear bumper, it just takes some time, and that first cut in the quarterpanel is...not easy

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round tube is stronger than box tube...again, thats just "the way it is". it just happens to be a lot easier to stand on box tube

...also much easier to make cuts, gussets and other stuff, and attach to the frame if youre using box tube.
here are the frame attachments and supports we made for the main 2"x4" deck of my rear bumper...very little material beyond the stock supports, and fully boxed and sleeved.
here is another view...my gallery there actually has a lot of photos from the various projects of late...rear bumper shots, rear fiberglass chop and fitment, and wheel well tubbing. the rear bumper still isnt finished, which is the other downside to doing it yourself if you dont yet own a welder.
if the rear of the new taco was similar in size to a tundra i'd send you the notes for how everything was measured and assembled, and why. it might provide some ideas for your own truck, if you choose the diy route.
-sean