I'm realistically seeing the 15-20k price I had 15 in a 4 runner and it still didn't do what I thought it should but also was 5600 pounds on a 4 cylinder. I would love 42s but then there is a 42" spair. I honestly know I could small block a jeep and be 80% to what I want. But it's not what I want.
Who says you HAVE to carry a spare? OBA, tube, plugs, tractor patches, etc.
Most people aren't going to be content with the size of a normal jeep, I get that, specifically in any kind of expo setting of use. For me, I have traveled ALL over the place in my little old flat fender, something the size of a YJ/CJ7/TJ seems HUGE in comparison. At some point the body becomes a bit too big for HARD off road use. Sure, you can wedge it down the trail but destroying the body and driving a raisin all the time can get a bit old.
With a slight compromise in off road capability, I think something about the size of a Jeep Wrangler LJ is pretty good, especially if the rear axle is moved back about 4-5" from stock with about a 38-39" tire. You will have to drive around the body to some degree, and your probably not going to want to do buggy trails in it. I thought long and hard about going that route. The LJ is also JUST big enough that you could sleep inside if you designed it right and didn't pack tons of gear.
In the end I decided to give up some interior room in going with the easier to find YJ/CJ7/TJ length tub panels. It is still a big improvement in size for ME over my flat fender.
It's all a compromise one way or another....