LOL. It's a matter of perspective. I went from a '91 XtraCab 22R-E to my '08 Tacoma V6 and to me it's quiet. I know if I was to drive a newer truck I'd be spoiled. So I don't. But I could barely hear the radio in my old truck on the highway and it wasn't because I was going all that fast.
Toyota's small trucks have always sucked with automatics. It's pretty hip to complain about the lack of power in Toyota V6s. You almost never hear a 4 cylinder owner complain, you just accept they're slow I suppose. But I've never really felt that way about my truck but it's a stick shift. I do honestly think that is significant.
Plus, I'm conscious about weight. I drive a small(ish) truck and accept that it's small(ish). Light camper shell, not every piece of glamping farkle, just two of us. Bigger? Sure it would be nice but then I couldn't park it in my driveway built for 1920s cars.
I get the feeling that a lot complaints about midsize trucks is the owners expect them to be full size. For example, how often does the question about towing a 6,000 lbs camper with one come up? Seriously? The owner forums talk about that a lot. Or why doesn't Toyota put in a V8? What are the interiors so small? It's like they're shocked a midsize vehicle is midsized.
I wish my truck was smaller, like my 1991 was. At this point if ever I replace my Tacoma it'll of course be a F150. But they're just so friggin' big. I like the 05+ Tacoma size, which isn't that much smaller than a 1/2 ton about 10 years ago. Which was about perfect balance with extra capability without too much extra size IMO.
I haven't met many car dealers who didn't think their line wasn't brought down from the Mount by Moses himself. And their individual vehicles, particularly when talking used, are so nice they might as well be new.